Continuing my week of expressing daily gratitude publicly, I turn to my family. As I stated, a little more succinctly on my social media walls, my family is not perfect. We’ve struggled with typical family issues, and we’ve fought to rise above them. This one thing I know about all of our children: If there were ever a need, each one of them would drop everything and rush to aid the one in need. That one truth puts everything else into perspective. Varying political views, career choices, parenting technics, personality differences … all of that is insignificant, except in the context of providing opportunity for personal growth.
So today, my gratitude focus is on my imperfect, lovely, incredible family. I adore them. I admire them. I appreciate them. Through my family I’ve grown. Because of them I’ve gained greater patience, learned to love and accept and respect myself more, increased my joy in laughter, grown in my desire to learn, found strength in loyalty, have become more determined, have grown in love and gratitude, and so much more. It is because of the imperfections in these amazing souls that I have seen opportunities for myself. I love everything about them, and I think they feel the same about me.
It’s an amazing journey – going from child to young adult to young parent to parent of adults to grandparent. From this side I’m currently moving forward on, I see that I didn’t really want for my children what I thought I wanted. I couldn’t have created better individuals if I’d have had total control – I couldn’t have even come close to making them into the incredible humans they are! And yes, I know they’re each on their own personal journey of progress and change. That’s beautiful. I love this perspective. I love changing myself as I also observe their changing.
Today I’m grateful for my family, while being acutely mindful of those without family, as well as those without family contact. Life is hard. It’s also glorious. #GiveThanks